"I believe in mediation because I have seen the court system, over the years, wreak havoc on individuals and families. The traditional court system can be a frustrating process. Mediation can be particularly beneficial for parents who are concerned about the stress that may filter down and affect their children. Children, no matter the age, can often sense the stress of either parent, and mediation is one option to consider when parents are focused on the best interest of their children. Often parties can resolve disputes without the expense, stress, and frustration of traditional litigation, if they have an open mind and employ a skillful mediator."